Handwritten text
Dear future parents,
I have learned from my parents that a good structure for a speech or formal writing is the formula “yesterday, today and tomorrow”. However, it’s a bit special in this case, as you are probably most interested in the “yesterday” and “today” parts for me, to ensure “tomorrow” for your future family. Much of what I could write about myself and my past has already been written and tested in the material you are presented with. I think the material gives a true picture of me as a person, both physically and personality-wise, and where I come from and what I bring. I therefore choose to
focus more on “today”.
I have chosen to become a donor to make a contribution to your future, and I feel great sympathy and emotion for the choice you have made or are facing. I am committed to taking on this responsibility and the tests I have undergone with humility, honesty and integrity. I can clearly feel the emotion and weight of some of the dilemmas you have probably been through even before the official process began. I know you’ve been through a lot, but I also think the road to the goal is a little easier now than it has been in the past. In many ways, the things we imagine about the future are worse than the reality itself, and you’ve already moved over the first bumps together. Some people become parents by accident, others plan more, but I would argue that parents-to-be like you will be the best, most fit and loving parents because you have been through so much to make it happen. I would therefore encourage you to continue with peace of mind and not be so worried. Regardless of whether you choose me as your donor, I wish you the best of luck in the future and I know you will do well as parents.
Best regards,