Evaluation
The donor has chosen to donate because of two reasons. One (and most importantly), it’s a good opportunity to make other people extremely happy by helping them conceive a child, and two, it’s a good way for some small financial gain without too much effort. He has talked to family and friends about the decision, where the family is supportive. His friends are a bit skeptical, but the donor has reflected a great deal and isn’t deterred.
In terms of intelligence, the donor has performed on par with the average population for his age group. He can be expected to learn new things at the same pace as most others, and he is likely adequate at analyzing complexity and solving problems.
In terms of personality, the donor is largely very calm, collected and easygoing. He rarely worries, if ever, and is not plauged by negative thoughts in any major way. He is in very good control of his impulses and is very deliberate in his decision making. This way, the donor can seem very thoughtful and reflective before making decisions, even a bit slow to determine himself at times. Others will likely see him as a person with a good capacity for enduring pressure and hardships, and he almost always keeps a level head in acute situations. The donor does have a tendency to measure himself compared to others and wants to make a good impression. In this way, he can be very intent on accommodating himself and monitoring his own behavior to fit others and to fit in, which will make him good at interacting with many different people without being embarrassing or unleasant to others, but it can also make him portray himself as some- one he is not, which can be taxing on his energies. He spent a lot of time on this especially in his younger years but has learned more and more to be comfortable with who he is. The donor is probably viewed by others as a bit reserved at first, and it will take some time for him to ease up and be gregarious and sociable with others. He seems to prefer a tight-knit group of friends to spend time with, rather than having a large social network. The donor is a gymnast and has most of his close friends in that social arena. He is also a coach or teacher of young gymnast athletes. He is not keen on drawing attention to himself but will take command if it is expected of him. The donor generally doesn’t seek the spotlight or any grand sense of influence. He can enjoy adrenaline activities and has skydiving on his bucket list, but he is not a risk taker per se. The donor is generally positive but also grounded and prefers to take the world as it is, not as he hopes it to be. The donor has a very curious mind in some respects, and he is creative and artful to some extent, especially with music where he plays piano and guitar from time to time. He is very interested in natural phenomena such as space, black holes and stars, where the big questions about how the world works are at the center. His grandfather has passed on some books on astronomy that the donor is currently reading through. In this sense, he has a penchant for philosophical and intellectual investigation and enjoys having interesting conversations with other people. He is also quite curious about why other people act the way they do, but he is not big on religion. The donor has a high alertness for the emotional state of others, and he can tend to neglect himself or at least not put much stock in his own emotions. It can be hard for others to identify his actual positions on many topics though, as his opinions are quite mutable.
The donor is largely very diplomatic, trusting and honest. He is not prone to promote himself and mostly prefers to be helpful and keep good relations with people. He is self-sacrificing when it comes to those closest to him, while he is less helpful towards other people, as he spends much energy making sure that his friends and family are happy. He tends to let other people outside his inner circle work out their own problems, unless the path to helping them is easy and doesn’t require much effort on his part.The donor is not big on confrontation and is likely to let relations fade rather than addressing conflicts directly, unless the matter is near and dear to him. The donor is not particularly strategic or political in his approach to other people. He is sympathetic and doesn’t want to be responsible for causing other people harm or suffering, even though it might be necessary for greater good sometimes.
The donor is very dutiful, sure of his own abilities and structure. He is ambitious and rarely feels any performance is good enough. This can make him nervous before a presentation, for example. The donor can be quite self-critical but probably rarely is critical of others outwardly. The donor has a high sense of responsibility for agreements, deadlines and promises, and he can tend to take on much responsibility on his own shoulders. The donor is good at setting goals for himself and achieving them, though he never brags or promotes himself.
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